12 Fragments Of Advice To My Daughter Graduating High School

Published in Odd and Fun on 17th July 2017
12 Fragments Of Advice To My Daughter Graduating High School

1. Keep your eyes forward .

As you’ve heard me repeatedly tell you and your brother, high school can suck. It even sucks for the kids who everybody thinks it doesn’t suck for. It sucks, but now it is over. And while we’ve invest this past year differentiating a lot of “lasts” — last soccer game, last institution prom, last trail crew banquet — high school graduation is really about keep moving. You will stop speaking goodbyes and soon you will start with a fresh batch of hellos. There is a big old blank sheet of your next chapter just waiting for you to write it, so please precisely be kept in mind that repents are a squander of energy.

2. Smart girls who pretend to be dumb are worse than actual dumb girls .

You are a smart girlfriend. Never profess or act otherwise. Why would you want to be around anyone who would prefer you to be stupid? And no, I will not be nice to anyone like that.

3. Listen to your mettle , not your libido .

Libidos are noisy little blabbermouths who sometimes drown out common sense. They are kind of like the sloppy drink at the party who is slurring his words and spilling sucks all over people. He may feel happy at the moment but man, will he regret situations in the morning. Your center, on the other mitt, is pure and trust-worthy. Follow your heart.

4. Help everyone who needs improve .

Don’t get caught up in shaping moral judgments of others before you help them. If person needs improve, make it without promise of grateful or acknowledgment. Don’t measure worthiness in those you facilitate; just assistant. Help feed people who are hungry; help orphans in China as you have already been doing; help hounds in the shelters — and not only the cute ones. Also help people be the best people there is an opportunity by role modeling what that looks like. You’ve already done that for me and your Dad.

5. The Army had it right .

From around 1980 to 2001, the U.S. Army’s slogan was “Be all you can be.” It was good admonition. But because I’m your baby and don’t want you in harm’s direction, I would actually instead you didn’t join the military or any other high-risk occupation, including skyscraper window-washer. But that replied, whenever you receive a humankind or maiden in garb, delight be sure and thank them for their service. As for you, indeed is gonna be all you can be.

6. Be humble, but abide praise .

There’s an ocean of discrepancies between tooting your own horn and countenancing unsolicited recognition. You are astounding and this was affirmed by all the colleges that missed you to attend and all the fellowship footings that are helping you to do that.

7. Ignore jerks .

The Internet has a lot of kinfolks twisted up in bows. Hate and venom-spewers are all over the place. Ignore the clowns and the cowards who post thoughts anonymously. Ignore the ignorant who share things unwittingly. Ignore the strangers who think it’s OK to revile others or give them admonition when they don’t even are all aware. But remember that while it’s OK to discounted them on a personal stage, don’t ever forget these people have been reshaping our world — your world. Yes, Hitler was real and he started off small.

8. Being spiteful is never cool.

OK, Sweetie — I know you know this. I’m including it for all the other nice beings reading and sharing this berth. As the bumper sticker replies, “Mean People Suck.” In point, they suck even more than high school sucks.

9. Be a creator.

Create something — induce something — every day. Make someone smile. Acquire a new pal. See a scarf, make a snack, make a ceramic dog. Just keep establishing.( Dad says to “make a call home to your parents.” I assert, that was him , not me .)

10. Stay organized.

Organized parties have less stress in their lives. They know where they left their gondola keys, don’t run out of a key ingredient mid-recipe, “ve never” in “peoples lives” been stuck on the side of the road out of gas. Coordinated people write happenings down, don’t show up belatedly to residences, don’t miss deadlines or forget when they have a test. I desire organized parties and in our house, you are my last best hope. Now where did you place the potato chips?

11. Pick wisely.

The decision to pick a teammate is likely the most important alternative you will ever induce. Yes, it’s even more stupendous a option than where you should go to college — and boy, did you agonize over that one. Pick someone who gets you. Pick someone who stimulates you laugh, whose touches thrill you, who are interested the same thoughts you want. You opt the person or persons, but acquire your commitment not just to them but to the idea of spending their own lives with them. Divorce is rarely quite. So pick wisely.

12. Question everything.

Don’t ever be afraid to ask a dumb question. Don’t take happenings or people for conceded. Parties in authority aren’t ever right. Challenge, insist on proof, ask exhibit, and then defy some more. After all, that’s what good scientists do. Now only pertain it to life.

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